There's something to be said about sharing dessert with friends. Gossiping with coffee and a brownie between you can bring about the best conversations, and even create some of your closest friends. I know from experience. I seem to make most of my closest friends over hot, steaming, flavored coffee and brownies. A few thousand calories are worth the building of a friendship between classes on a busy day.
But then again, similar interests are also a good thing. The majority of my friends are dancers; we bond over our love of performing onstage, our mutual hate of aching muscles and pulled ligaments and our love of hot caffinated beverages.
Most people I've met don't think that there's such a thing as a cliche in the performing arts. There is. You can usually tell who the dancers are by the way they dress and what they carry:
- Usually some form of dance or gym bag
- Most are seen in "street clothes" with some sort of added accessory- ie. arm/leg warmers
- They carry bottles of water everywhere
- When they change into dance clothes, they wear either leggings, dance pants, tights and athletic shorts, tank tops, ripped sweaters, or old t-shirts
- Dancers are usually seen wearing their dance shoes and carrying their "street" ones
- They usually have their hair pulled back in a ponytail or bun held together by bobby pins or clips
- Leg warmers are 99.9% of the time a part of the ensemble
From my personal experience, the majority of the time, dancers stick together, sitting in front of the dance studio warming up or talking or gathered together at the most random places- cafeteria tables, library bookshelves, or water fountains. We spend our time chatting about our days or bitching about the muscle we've pulled from the previous class.
We share our makeup and split our brownies; run over each others' sentences and trade leg warmers. We exchange information on where to get the best leggings for a great price and do each others' hair as we chat about the schools we're applying too or what we're doing for the next recital.
We all have similarities in our lives; have danced from the time we were children or fallen into it by mistake. We choose our degrees by the best income, and then pick classes that are on such an opposite extreme that it's almost planned.
But the main thing we do is stay loyal to our friends; as dancers, we live by an unspoken code:
Respect the choreographer.
Respect the performers.
Respect yourself.
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